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Weaknesses
or Strengths, What Says You?
By
Jon Sim
Feeling
unhappy over yourself? Hating yourself for who you are? Why
must you be feeling so? To just be very straight with you, this is the act of
a fool Now,
even if the whole world is going to look down on you, you should never look down
on yourself. The more they are going to look down on you, the more you should
prove yourself to them, isn't it? And I am sure your family and many other loved
ones would never ever look down on you. So the more you shouldn't let them down,
isn't it? Understand
this. Strength or a weakness of yours, which is going to be which, is still too
early to be deciding now. For all you may know, your weaknesses may just become
your strength and your strength, your weaknesses to become. In life, there is
not definite power, not definite rights or wrongs. What that matters is how you
are going to put to use what you have within yourself. You
see. One who excel in his or hers studies doesn't necessarily mean he or she is
just going to do well in life. In fact, they are indeed many top students who
fail badly in life when they enter the working society. Yes.
They have the strength, that High IQ to absorb all those profound theories taught
in school, getting straight As for all their exams. They are very good at putting
theories of others into their head. And because they scored As for them, they
believe and insisted that they are the correct way to doing things. They failed
to understand that what is success for others may not just be success for everyone.
Stubborn in a way, you can say. And
because of their excellent academic result, they got straight into high position
in big companies. The higher they just climbed. And when they eventually failed,
they fall so badly that they couldn't pick themselves up; failing just further
to perform to expectations of their job. Some were given another chance but some,
sadly to say, got laid off. This is how practical and realistic this world can
be. What
may seem a strength to them at first has turned out to one big weakness. Remember.
The correct idea of learning is to understand and put to practical use of the
knowledge to life and through experiences, constantly customizing them to suits
you. In simple, to be flexible. Yes,
you may have failed for now. But that doesn't mean you are going to fail forever.
And let's just be frank, this is definitely not the first time you encounter failure
in life? And you are still surviving, isn't it? Meaning to say, you have that
subconscious will and determination within you not wanting to just give up. In
a way, you have been very strong. Think
about it. Stubbornness can be either a strength or weakness. To stubborn to learn
to give in and accept changes in life, that is a weakness. Being persistent in
pursuing your goals and never giving up easily, that is strength. What
your character make out of you depends on how you actually put them to use. The
laziest person can become the best salesperson, excelling in an area where tedious
hands-on work is at minimum. A person who can never wake up in time for the normal
9 to 5 job can choose to work as a freelancer, performing better in the hours
which suits him. A bankruptcy can become the best motivator, sharing his or her
precious experience with the young's. A little child who never fail to explain
his way through for his mischievous and wrongdoing may just become a good lawyer
when he grow up. And
there is definitely more. Stop
hating yourself. There is certainly that very something special inside of you
waiting to be discovered by you, something that could bring about that difference
to your life... 
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