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Have
You Been True to Yourself?
By
Jon Sim
Have
you been true to yourself? Have you being following your heart, believing in yourself;
trusting your very own belief? Or has this thought never even occurred to you
before? Now
that you are reading this, give yourself this chance and ask yourself. Be true
and honestly answer the question. It is a very simple question to answer, isn't
it? To answer, just either a yes or a no. Simple as that! But
very often, things are just not that simple for many and who very likely include
also you. Being
brought up in this fast modernized and ever-developing time, it is indeed hard
for things to be that simple. Everyone of us is in a way forced to keep up with
the pace, being brainwashed to just believe in the system; believing that in order
to survive and to be successful, we have to follow what that is laid down for
us, following what everyone else is doing; that you should be doing this and not
doing that. But
are you not the one who is supposed to be telling yourself what you should do,
rather than them? And
sad to be saying, many have just unknowingly live their life away only to find
themselves with tons of regrets in their later years; too late to just do anything.
To think of it, it is scary isn't it? Now,
this is certainly not the way life should be. To begin with, life shouldn't be
this stressful. Yes,
to constantly learn and to improve on ourselves is what we certainly should be
doing. But to lose your direction, drifting just further and further from the
real you it shouldn't be. Are
you the real you now? You
have to understand this. Right within you there exists two states, your inner
self and your outer self. Your inner self being your thoughts and beliefs, your
outer self being yours actions in support of your inner thoughts. In simple, your
inner self plus your outer self equal to the real you. And
to be the real you, your inner self and outer self must complement one another. Remember
this. You came into this world with a very own journey of yours to discover. This
life journey is yours and yours alone and nobody else. You decide for yourself
what you want and not for others to decide for you. If you are to please, you
please yourself and not somebody else. You
see. For all that exists in this world, there is always the equal and the opposite
side of them. Though opposing but are for all times, interrelating. This is the
natural way of life (The Principle of Yin and Yang) When there is day there will
be night. When there is positive there will be negative and when they are strengths
they will be weaknesses and etc. Similarly
within you, when you can be happy you can be unhappy too. And I should believe
happiness is what you seek in life? So,
be true to yourself! It is only when you are true to yourself, will happiness
be found. Instead
of listening to others to allow them to tell you that you shouldn't do this and
that, you tell yourself that you must do this and you must do that! Instead of
listening to others, listen to your heart. What
is right and what is wrong? There is never a definitely right or wrong. You do
what you think is right for yourself. Just picture this scenario. Since young,
we have been taught over and over again that it is a sin to lie. Now, let me just
ask. If you can actually save a person's life by telling a kind lie, would you?
Tell a kind lie and he be spared, given another chance. Tell the truth and that
poor man's life be taken. Now,
which is a sin, to tell a lie or to indirectly murder someone? A saint or a murderer,
it is just between that thin line. Similarly,
a happy or an unhappy you? It is just between that thin line too. And which side
of the line do you want to be at? Remember
this. To be a truthfully happy person, your actions must complements your thoughts
and belief. You have to understand. Even the slightest decision can affect your
life. Well, sometimes having just that little additional of few minutes of sleep
makes a difference to your day? An efficient day or a bad day, that few minutes
can make a great difference. Seek
the correct way of life. Be true to yourself and happiness you shall find... 
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